Life is a choice.

Bismillah
Assalamualaikum gaisss.
How are you?

I’m fine.
A book-done-reading fine. Hehe.

I’m finding peace by reading nowadays of which I’m going back to my childhood self once again. Haha.

(Padahal memang suka baca buku pon lols)

Anyway.
You wanna know something funny tak?
(Kalau taknak, I still wanna cerita gak. Haha)

So, yesterday I did some grocery shopping alone and out of the blue I decided to wash my car. You know yang car-wash-machine tu kan…I went there because I simply want to give my car a wash je.

And yeah I did. I am so happy that my car dah mandi after months of tak mandi heheh. Usually I’ll give him a bath myself but nowadays I don’t feel like washing the car.

Andddd~~ tak lama lepas tuu HUJAN!!! Hahaha. I laughed my heart outtt sebab memang dah agak that it’s gonna rain.

You know, I always have this luck bila cuci kereta. Almost 99% of times when I wash my car, mesti akan hujan right after that.

I thought it’s only when I wash my car je. But one time, mom send her car for car wash and I’m accompanying her and tadaaaa~~~ hujan turun right after the wash. I told mom that “sorry ma, it’s my luck that it’s rain everytime I wash the car” and mom laughed.

I know it’s ridiculous to think like that. Ye lah kita tahu kan cuaca tu kerja Allah. It’s just I can’t help to laugh at the situation.

I used to be mad at the weather over something petty like this when I was young, you know. I said “penat-penat je cuci kereta; pastu hujan” or “tak guna punya hujan; turun lah time aku dah cuci kereta”. Astaghfirullah al azim. That was the young me.

Gaiss — life is a choice. You can see it from a negative point of view or a positive one.

Baru-baru ni I attend a Tadabbur Al-Quran session and this ustadha shared that (in somewhat similar sayings) if we are easily mad or angry or very much in rush in everything — we are not in peace deep down in our heart.

Let’s see ourselves when we are late or when we are in the middle of a traffic jam; for example. Do we swear or honk like crazy or being impatient and be angry over everything?

I always have this belief in my heart that there’s always a reasoning over something that happened. Because that’s what Allah had plan and laid our life as.

So yeah. Life is a choice. You can take our lateness as something good or bad. You can take being trapped in a traffic light as a time for you to do quran recitation or do some zikr or you can be all mad over it of which I believe that you takboleh nak buat apa-apa melainkan bertenang dan cari jalan alternatif lain andย  simply follow the flow.

The same with me and the car wash and the rain. I chose to laugh about it and be grateful for the trees and other living creatures yang memerlukan air hujan untuk hidup. I can’t stop the rain, can I? And my car need a wash once in a while. What the use making a fuss over a rain that comes after a car wash, right?

How to find peace in our heart?
This is what I do and feel free to dig deep down in your heart what works for you,okay?
1- Baca Al-Quran
2- Cari talk yang share stories from Alquran
3- Zikr

You kena usaha untuk fall in love with Allah, with Muhammad s.a.w, with Islam. Fill in your heart dulu. Baru sikit-sikit ubah yang luaran.

When you fall in love with Allah, with His creatures ; insyaAllah you will find peace and you know la kan what happen when you fall in love kan? You will do mostly anything to please the one that you love kan — in this case is Allah.

Again. Life is a choice. You can take your life negatively or positively. It’s all in your hand.

p/s: I’m not an Alim or anything. I just simply share what I feel and what I believe. If what I wrote here happened to open up your view in life in a positive way, Alhamdulillah. All from Allah.

Love,
Shafa

Looking for ways to lose weight? Whatsapp me at 0192112157 for more info ๐Ÿ™‚

 

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After a week of hiatus…

Bismillah.
Assalamualaikum, girls.
How do you guys doing?

Yeah. I know I promised that I’ll drop by every Monday and I missed it last week and yesterday. I am truly sorry. Things had been so hectic and now I’m here writing.

Anyway.
It’s raining season now so, please do take care of yourself yaa. Drink plenty of water, take fruits and vegetables. Choose your food wisely.

What else?
It’s almost the end of 2017 now. So how you guys holding?

I’m ecstatic to welcome the new year.
And at the same time I feel so sad to leave 2017.
I’m learning so much this year and I am so proud of myself for my own personal growth. Alhamdulillah.

Just a simple hello here.
I’m gonna off for now.
See your guys, soon ya!!!

And let’s finish 2017 strong, girls.

Much love,
Shafa.

Working without MY laptop.

Bismillah.
Assalamualaikum wbt.

How are you today?
So yeah~ I just feel like sharing my life my work without MY (i.e my very own laptop) today.

Well, to those yang really do know me since my UNI years, I am practically living with my laptop. Between a phone and laptop? LAPTOP without a doubt.

Because if I’m at home, I’ll shove the phone into my drawer whereby I will keep my laptop practically by my side.

So yeppp — laptop is my LIFE.

Just so you know, my laptop is SUPER old. Like almost 10 years old if I’m not mistaken. I started using it when I was in UNI and it’s been 6 or 7 years since I left Uni so yeah, my lappy is 10 years old.

Since it’s SUPER old, the screen has turned yellowish and it hurts my eyes especially if I need to stare at the screen for a very long period of time. It’s still working well it’s just for working ; it’s not that very helpful.

Now, using my baby bro’s laptop (since he got himself a desktop and the laptop is living under his bed) for a while ( May Allah bless him, insyaAllah).

Yeah. It’s not my laptop and it’s kind of feel weird working using other people’s laptop. Like living in someone’s home and you don’t feel you belong there. That’s the kind of feeling I’m having now. Deep down in my heart I scream to have my own laptop, unfortunately I’m not having the luxury of working on a laptop I called my own, just yet.

Putting those feeling of uneasiness aside, I had to put my head straight and focus on the big thing now. I need to work because it’s my passion to serve other people in helping them losing weight healthily. I’d loveee to see more people lose weight and tell the world that I helped them (crazy, huh? Hehe).

Anyway, working without my laptop is easy nowadays since I found the beauty of icloud.com where I can grab my work in my Iphone with a few clicks. And yeah, going back and forth from one tab to another can be a hassle at times, because you can’t simply download your stuff into other people’s laptop, right? However Alhamdulillah, I still can do my work without my laptop. I am still grateful for it. Alhamdulillah.

“No excuses” has been on of my MOTTO in life where I love to solve my own problem with things in hand within my own capabilities.

THIS makes me realize that every problem has it’s ownย  solution.

There are things that within our control and there are not. It’s all in our mind and our self attitude.

Like ; I can say that I don’t have my laptop and don’t perform well in what I do but I decide to differ. I work on our house’s desktop for months, borrowed mom’s Macbook once and now I am borrowing my brother’s unused laptop. Keyword here is : I LOOK for other desktop or laptop to work on.

Life is a choice. You can cry over the spilled milk or be grateful that you still have half a cup left to drink.

It’s all in our mind. If we shifted our focus from focusing on the problem to finding solutions to our problems, we’ll get our job done InsyaAllah. Think of “what can I do to solve this”, “what improvement can I make to make this better”. Just focus on things within your control and InsyaAllah you’ll be all fine.

Point is : I still can work without MY laptop. Hehehe.

Have a blessed day, peeps.
Stay beautiful inside and out.
Love you lots.

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Planner Giveaway by Eeca Shyaa

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Assalamualaikum.
Hai.

These past few days I’ve been blog-hopping most of the time. Looking for something to read other than books agaknya. Hehe.

So, stumbled upon this one blog. Sebenarnya I’ve been following her IG for quite some times. How I met her IG, I don’t exactly remember. Sebab as a random person like me, I’ll go hashtags searching everything that comes in mind and follow IGs randomly. Hehe.

Anyway.
I do wish to win this planner. Why? I love to write and I believe by having a cool planner do makes me like a serious writer (keep on dreaming, shafa!! LOL).

Go and drop by her blog. I’ll drop the link down below and do please pray that I will win this giveaway… *heart* *heart*

Her post on the giveaway Planner Giveaway by Eeca Shyaa
Her blog Eeca Shyaa
Her IG Eeca Shyaa
Her FB page Xechalogy

She’s a Miri-born and she’s a lifestyle blogger.

Nice knowing you ๐Ÿ™‚

Love, Shafa

I love to help ladies and women out there to lose weight healthily with Herbalife. We in #teamsurikurus is the best support group that can help you to lose weight happily and stress-free.

Whatsapp me at 019-211-2157 for fast responds. Thank you.

Random

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Just simply messing around with my little camera. And since Cahaya Bulat is just lazing around so, I took the liberty of taking her picture.

Well.
Raya dah habis. So, let’s get back to business. Open house pun dah berkurangan, tinggal kenduri kahwin je on weekends. Of which, it’s bearable and manageable. No big damages are going to be done. InsyaAllah. ๐Ÿ™‚

Anyway,
We are open for business all year round. And since we’re doing online-basis, you can join the coaching group from anywhere you are – as long as internet can reach – obviously almost every continent of the entire world. Hehe.

Our group is getting bigger and bigger. Alhamdulillah. As for my small group, we’ve helped to shed almost 100kg worth of fat, MasyaAllah. It’s amazing.

I believe for the whole total of the group would be more than 500kg. So, let’s ringankan muka bumi ni, girls.

We also have boys, just a few and their results are tremendously amazing. Banyak result sebenarnya, yang dah compile tu pun banyak, yang pending punnn lagi banyak. Ye lah, every month ada new people.

( You can search #teamsurikurus in Instagram or Facebook )

Let’s join our motion, girls. What are you waiting for? The world will keep on moving and changing. No one can stay put forever.

Always have faith and believe in yourself. Because, I always believe that we can do it. Question is, Do you?

I’ll try to compile the results here, next time maybe. Till then, you can check me out on Instagram : noorshafawatimufid for feedbacks, sharing and results of our team.

Will be waiting for you, still. My coaching group will always open for you.

Be beautiful inside out.
Love yourself.
You are amazing!

Love,
Shafa

 

Beautiful you . Loving you.

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Every girl is beautiful. Be it skinny or fat or short or tall. You are beautiful. That’s it!

For a girl of 168cm tall and 60kg weight, orang selalu kata “untunglah tinggi, tak gemuk, pakai baju semua cantik je, macam model”, it can be quite troublesome to hear. Most of the times, unfortunately.

Not complaining, though. It’s just~

Urghh!!!

GIRLS~ Listen!
We are beautiful in any way we are. Tak kisah lah macam mana fizikal kita. Yang penting kesihatan tu yang perlu diutamakan.

It is saddening sebenarnya, knowing that there are people out there yang trying to shed a few kilos in such an unhealthy way. Just because they want to look beautiful and skinny.

And ada juga yang depressed sebab digelar “gemuk”,”badak sumbu”,”gajah” and many other names just because they are a bit fat.

This is NOT HEALTHY~! This is so heart-breaking!

First rule of being happy is to be happy and grateful in your own skin. “Honey, at least you have a body to live in”. Am I right?

Secondly, be grateful that you are healthy. Alhamdulillah. There are people yang nak sihat like you, seriously.

Then, take care of your body. Eat well, sleep well, be happy, get active, be a loving person towards yourself and other people around you. So that you can live happily and fully for a very long time.

Simple but very challenging to do. Honestly.

But, the end result is so worth it. Every single of it.

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Love yourself first because no one can love you the way you do.

Love,
Shafa.