Life is a choice.

Bismillah
Assalamualaikum gaisss.
How are you?

I’m fine.
A book-done-reading fine. Hehe.

I’m finding peace by reading nowadays of which I’m going back to my childhood self once again. Haha.

(Padahal memang suka baca buku pon lols)

Anyway.
You wanna know something funny tak?
(Kalau taknak, I still wanna cerita gak. Haha)

So, yesterday I did some grocery shopping alone and out of the blue I decided to wash my car. You know yang car-wash-machine tu kan…I went there because I simply want to give my car a wash je.

And yeah I did. I am so happy that my car dah mandi after months of tak mandi heheh. Usually I’ll give him a bath myself but nowadays I don’t feel like washing the car.

Andddd~~ tak lama lepas tuu HUJAN!!! Hahaha. I laughed my heart outtt sebab memang dah agak that it’s gonna rain.

You know, I always have this luck bila cuci kereta. Almost 99% of times when I wash my car, mesti akan hujan right after that.

I thought it’s only when I wash my car je. But one time, mom send her car for car wash and I’m accompanying her and tadaaaa~~~ hujan turun right after the wash. I told mom that “sorry ma, it’s my luck that it’s rain everytime I wash the car” and mom laughed.

I know it’s ridiculous to think like that. Ye lah kita tahu kan cuaca tu kerja Allah. It’s just I can’t help to laugh at the situation.

I used to be mad at the weather over something petty like this when I was young, you know. I said “penat-penat je cuci kereta; pastu hujan” or “tak guna punya hujan; turun lah time aku dah cuci kereta”. Astaghfirullah al azim. That was the young me.

Gaiss — life is a choice. You can see it from a negative point of view or a positive one.

Baru-baru ni I attend a Tadabbur Al-Quran session and this ustadha shared that (in somewhat similar sayings) if we are easily mad or angry or very much in rush in everything — we are not in peace deep down in our heart.

Let’s see ourselves when we are late or when we are in the middle of a traffic jam; for example. Do we swear or honk like crazy or being impatient and be angry over everything?

I always have this belief in my heart that there’s always a reasoning over something that happened. Because that’s what Allah had plan and laid our life as.

So yeah. Life is a choice. You can take our lateness as something good or bad. You can take being trapped in a traffic light as a time for you to do quran recitation or do some zikr or you can be all mad over it of which I believe that you takboleh nak buat apa-apa melainkan bertenang dan cari jalan alternatif lain andΒ  simply follow the flow.

The same with me and the car wash and the rain. I chose to laugh about it and be grateful for the trees and other living creatures yang memerlukan air hujan untuk hidup. I can’t stop the rain, can I? And my car need a wash once in a while. What the use making a fuss over a rain that comes after a car wash, right?

How to find peace in our heart?
This is what I do and feel free to dig deep down in your heart what works for you,okay?
1- Baca Al-Quran
2- Cari talk yang share stories from Alquran
3- Zikr

You kena usaha untuk fall in love with Allah, with Muhammad s.a.w, with Islam. Fill in your heart dulu. Baru sikit-sikit ubah yang luaran.

When you fall in love with Allah, with His creatures ; insyaAllah you will find peace and you know la kan what happen when you fall in love kan? You will do mostly anything to please the one that you love kan — in this case is Allah.

Again. Life is a choice. You can take your life negatively or positively. It’s all in your hand.

p/s: I’m not an Alim or anything. I just simply share what I feel and what I believe. If what I wrote here happened to open up your view in life in a positive way, Alhamdulillah. All from Allah.

Love,
Shafa

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Better or Less?

Hi, guys.
Assalamualaikum.

So, here I am checking in again in my blog as I’ve decided to checking in every Monday, InsyaAllah.

So yeah. I bought a tripod. It just arrived today. A cheap one yet so far I am so satisfied with it. Alhamdulillah. Can’t wait to use it outside and take pictures and all. Yay~!!!

However somehow, it get me into thinking, “I’ve already had a mini tripod, kenapa beli lagi?”.

Yelah, dah beli satu kenapa beli lagi, kan?

That leads to;
Being in a situation where you know there’s something better yet you settle for less.

Pernah tak face that kind of situation? I have! Twice. Hehe.

Once,
I’ve always wanted an Iphone for work because of the apps that I can use to edit pictures, videos, because of the quality of work I can produce — Iphone is my office so I need a very good office for my work. Yet, I settle for a different phone where I always told myself that “it also can work well for your work” just because it’s cheaper (me and the cheapskate of mine hehe) than an Iphone.

(FYI, different people has their own liking and so do I)

Yeah, I settle for a different phone that I somehow hope it will work as what I expected it to do. Deep down in my heart I am not satisfied and I keep on regretting myself for that.

Now, two phones later I bought an Iphone. Finally. Sebab dah tak tahan lagi dah. I need a good phone for my work. That’s it.

It works splendidly well, masyaAllah. I am so happy, alhamdulillah.

See, with the price of the two phones, can cover one Iphone. And in this case, I can have two Iphones. Urgh.

Same goes with tripod.
I’ve always wanted a tripod. Yet, I told myself that I can use Abah punya tripod (yang akhirnya decided to break after 32 years of serving), buy a mini tripod because it’s cheaper. So yeah, giving the same excuses again. It’s the cycle again.

Now, after 2 mini tripods, I bought an actual tripod. Finally Alhamdulillah. And I’m feeling so much better inside, Alhamdulillah.

What I’m trying to say is,
Kadang kita tau ada benda yang lebih baik, yang lebih utama untuk hidup kita tapi kita putuskan untuk memilih yang kurang.

Selain benda material, hidup kita juga.

Semua orang tahu, nak kurus kena JAGA PEMAKANAN tapi kebanyakkannya memilih untuk makan ubat kurus, memilih untuk memakai korset, memilih untuk bersenam dan crash diet sehinggakan membinasakan diri.

Orang tahu PEMAKANAN itu perlu diubah, namun, mereka tak mahu mengubah yang itu.

It’s like we know the root cause of our weight problem but we choose to think otherwise.

“Nanti aku senam, aku kurus lah”
“Pakai korset je”
“Ubat kurus ni boleh buat kau kurus cepat”.

This is what I mean by;
We know there’s something better for us but we decided to settle for less.

Kurus dan nampak kurus adalah berbeza, k.
And untuk dapatkan kurus yang berkekalan, memang kena ubah gaya pemakanan. Itulah cara yang selamat dan sihat. Tak ada cara lain.

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Pilihlah dengan bijak. Anda mampu mengubahnya.

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Tiba masa untuk berubah.
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Planner Giveaway by Eeca Shyaa

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Assalamualaikum.
Hai.

These past few days I’ve been blog-hopping most of the time. Looking for something to read other than books agaknya. Hehe.

So, stumbled upon this one blog. Sebenarnya I’ve been following her IG for quite some times. How I met her IG, I don’t exactly remember. Sebab as a random person like me, I’ll go hashtags searching everything that comes in mind and follow IGs randomly. Hehe.

Anyway.
I do wish to win this planner. Why? I love to write and I believe by having a cool planner do makes me like a serious writer (keep on dreaming, shafa!! LOL).

Go and drop by her blog. I’ll drop the link down below and do please pray that I will win this giveaway… *heart* *heart*

Her post on the giveaway Planner Giveaway by Eeca Shyaa
Her blog Eeca Shyaa
Her IG Eeca Shyaa
Her FB page Xechalogy

She’s a Miri-born and she’s a lifestyle blogger.

Nice knowing you πŸ™‚

Love, Shafa

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