How are you, all? Missing me? Hehe.
Truth is, I’ve been a bit occupied as a relief teacher at nearby school. And it’s Sekolah Menengah. I taught Maths to Form 1 and Form 2 students and Pendidikan Sivik for Form 1. Frankly speaking, it’s been hectic. Can you imagine, teaching 20 plus to 30 plus students in a class. And mind you, the classes I got was the brightest and also not so bright. Definitely there’s a different in attitude and sorts. Yet, I found it interesting since I love learning about people.
And speaking about people, let’s talk about the recent event happened a few days ago. Yesterday, went to Shah Alam. Using DUKE, NKVE and Federal. So, semestinya aku akan terkenang pasal accident yang happened,kan? Tambah-tambah sebak when aku realize yang mereka lagi sedikit nak sampai susur keluar ke Gombak. Can you imagine the feeling? Of course sebak lah kan. Al-fatihah to them. Mohon Allah berikan ketenangan kepada si mati dan keluarga, Amin.
Speaking of that, how can I say this in a very mannerly way, hmm…things happened for a reason. And from our own judgment yang dah boleh distinguish right and wrong ni lah kan, we know that berlumba di tempat awam is wrong, let aside driving above had laju because somehow kita akan terlaju juga,kan. Okay. That’s that. Accident happened. Fine. Yet, there are a thing or two that I don’t feel yang kita patut buat. Like being overly defensive with harsh and inappropriate words. You can be defensive, it is fine. But, why must be in harsh words? If you are wrong, fine, admit it. People will understand, eventually. And if you aren’t wrong, say it and leave it there. The anger will die out somehow.
And others, yes, I am fully understand that you are being furious with the action. But, is it appropriate to talk, to comment with the swearing, the harshness and those judging words? No, right? Why do that? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes? They are scared, perhaps? They can’t think straight, maybe? They are young, possibly. It is okay to be angry yet be rationally angry. What happened if the one driving was your own family members? How do you feel if other people said the exact same things you said? Will you be happy or feeling hateful towards the commentors? Think again.
Pernah kan korang dengar how budak-budak sekarang bercakap? Is it nice to hear? Or korang rasa, “it’s okay.it’s fine with me since aku pon cakap macam tu jugak”. Or perhaps korang rasa nak tampar je budak-budak sekarang for the way they behave nowadays? You tell them to be quiet and listen, were they following? I doubt it. You tell them to not smoking, yet you too smoking. Will they listen and follow? NO!
Kids are the direct reflection of yourself. No matter how hard you scream, make them behave, ask them to talk well to you, they won’t listen to you. They will copy you. How you talk to them and the others, they will copy. How you treat other people , that’s how they will follow. They will copy you. Like CARBON COPY.
Think back. What kind of world would you like to live in? Like now? Or you want a better one? Where people say good things, positive things, happy things. Decide for yourself. If you still want to be boldly expressing yourself, swearing here and there, leaving harsh and hurtful comments, be my guest. However, brace yourself for the people around you who would do you the same. And if you now want to change to the better, and then there are some people saying things that hurt you in any sorts, forgive them. Let them be. Pray that they will change. Allah know best. Trust him. Then jauhkan diri from them. Mingle among positive people.
Everything starts with yourself. Bila pergi talk-talk agama, the speakers will tell the exact same things. Change yourself to the better. Forget about others. You first, and other will follow.
I love people. Meeting new people (though sometimes my introvert-side won’t allows me) is beautiful. To give motivation, to be there whenever they need you, to give hope that they can be a better version of themselves. Are somewhat interesting and noble thing to do. That’s why I am truly in love with my Herbalife life.
LET’S GET FIT AND HEALTHY WITH ME!
019 211 2157